Consent Conversations

Since 2020, I have been engaging in conversations around consent, boundaries, decolonization of the body, resilience, social justice, pleasure and the Wheel of Consent® relational framework with colleagues and fellow consent, intimacy and sexuality educators and coaches on Instagram livestreams on @thewheelofconsent account and @consentisapractice account. 

Rest, Resilience and Resourcing

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

The Art of Receiving and Giving: Holiday Edition

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

Domain, Boundary and Limits

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

Consent Practices for Belonging & Connection

with Carmen Leilani and Puma Höflich

Expanding Awareness of Choice

with Carmen Leilani & Marcia Baczynski

Reclaiming Agency

with Carmen Leilani & Stella Topaz

The Least Useful Consent Question Ever

with Carmen Leilani & Marcia Baczynski

The Privilege and Power of Choice

with Carmen Leilani and Adam Bee

The Difference between Serving and Taking

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

The Power of the Pause


with Carmen Leilani and Stella Topaz

The Difference between Allowing and Accepting

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

Consent will not save you

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

A Luxurious No: A Conversation About Identity and Access to No

with Carmen Leilani and Tunde JO

Consent Skills for Cuddle Events

with Carmen Leilani and Jax Wren

Embodied Consent for Liberation

with Carmen Leilani and Dame Sadie

Consent Practices for Psychotherapists

with Carmen Leilani and Fiona O’Farrell

Embodying Consent & Ancestral Reconnection

with Carmen Leilani and Helena De Felice

The Wheel of Consent on the Road! Live from Atlanta

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

Reclaiming Body Sovereignty after Sexual Assault

with Carmen Leilani and Helena De Felice

Consent: One Word, 6 Meanings

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

Reclaiming Body Sovereignty from Religious Trauma

with Carmen Leilani and Madazon Can-Can

Affinity Groups: How we show up differently in BIPOC spaces

with Carmen Leilani and Max Pearl

Consent for Besties: Practices to Deepen Friendship

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

The Difference between Touch & Sex

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

Defining Relationship Agreements

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

The Art of Receiving and Giving

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

Communication tips for Boundaries & Desires

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

Teaching Consent in Schools to Teens

with Carmen Leilani and Gráinne Carr

Consent and Radical Mental Health First Aid

with Carmen Leilani, Ndeye Oumou Sylla and Betty Martin

Consent & Radical Self-Reliance

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

Bringing the Wheel of Consent into the Workplace

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

M4M: Touch, Vulnerability and Consent

with Carmen Leilani, JoJo Bear and Michael Dresser

Boundaries & The Power of Saying No

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

Learning to Touch with Intention

with Betty Martin and Carmen Leilani

Where the Wheel of Consent doesn’t work

with Carmen Leilani and Sasha Lasdon

The Difference between Desires and Preferences

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

Desire Smuggling

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

Consent & Regenerative Business Practices

with Carmen Leilani and Karryn Olson

Consent Practices for Casual Dating/Hookups

with Carmen Leilani and JoJo Bear

Consent Education for Diverse Communities

with Carmen Leilani and Max Pearl

Consent & The Nervous System

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

Taking, with Integrity 

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

What Your Nanay didn’t teach you about pleasure, sex and consent 

with Carmen Leilani and Goddess Cecilia

Consent Practices for Businesses and Organizations

with Carmen Leilani and Helena De Felice

Renegotiating Consent & Boundary Agreements

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

Power, Pleasure and Consent 

with Carmen Leilani and Adam Bee

Embodiment as a Fundamental Consent Practice

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

The 3 Minute Game is the New 7 Minutes in Heaven

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

Boundaries and this F**cking Pandemic

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

Exploring the Pleasure of Boundaries

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

Embodied Decisions: Trusting the Wisdom in Your Body

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

Beyond Burnout: Resources for Replenishing Resilience

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

Creating Consent Culture

with Carmen Leilani, Betty Martin and Marcia Baczynski

The Magic Question: Who is it for?

with Carmen Leilani, Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin

Learning to Touch Again in a Post-Pandemic World

with Carmen Leilani, Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin

Reorienting to touch, pleasure and boundaries after lockdown 

with Carmen Leilani, Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin

Distinctions around Definitions of Consent

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

Applying the Wheel of Consent to Relationships

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin